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Cake day: June 20th, 2023

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  • In my case, you’re wrong, the guy is like a tank, insecurity is not the case. I see some people trying to “dig deeper”:

    • “maybe the women have insecurities, so it is them who are to blame”
    • “maybe the asshole is not an asshole, he just has a childhood trauma”
      No, he is a confident asshole, and his “charm” works one some women (and not each of them falls into made-up categories). People look for patterns too much. “I’m a red-piller” - lol, that’s a first.
      Note, I’m not protecting the guy, but he is not a comic-book villain with an origin story. He just happens to be successful in finding one-night stands because of a personal trait.
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  • Checked and found that US citizens don’t have inherent right to work in EU - it’s only easier to travel, not to settle down.
    And speaking of renting - it really depends. If we’re talking about Copenhagen, it is expensive, the market is broken (thanks AirBnb), and it’s really hard and expensive to move in. I burned through my savings and owed some money to my employer before I could invite the rest of my family into a freshly-rented apartment. But if we’re talking about “a bed under a roof”, it’s super easy to find a room on FB Marketplace, and live with a couple of other internationals.
    So if it’s just about “getting out of US” (crazy, I never thought it would be a thing, I’m sorry for them), then finding work is a must, but in a big city you usually can find something. It’s only hard to find something nice and permanent