title. how do i know if someone i dated actually wants to be my friend or if i’m just being used?? he doesn’t like me at all nor want me but he wants to talk to me so i can comfort him 24/7 because he’s always miserable. he never does stuff for me but he would always get really happy when i did stuff for him.
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I hate to be the one to say it but… you’re being used. Leave that situation behind as soon and as fast as possible.
i will, thanks! i’m ignoring him so i can lose any feelings i had
Good luck! I know it can be difficult but, be strong!! You can do it!
thank you so much! he would always say he’d do stuff for me later but never do it and he called the things i liked stupid or ugly
Nothing you like is stupid or ugly. Never let anyone ever tell you different!!
TYSM!!!
I don’t know if I’d frame it as being “used,” but this person is clearly toxic. He’s miserable all the time and is trying to bring you down with him. He’d probably do that to anyone who lets him. Don’t let him.
If you want to remain in his life in some capacity, you can put up strict boundaries, e.g. the conversation ends if he insults you or anything about you, and there is to be absolutely no “comforting” if he complains, and you should require he go to therapy. Alternatively, you could just stop seeing him entirely.
he said he didn’t wanna talk to me so i blocked him. i’m done with his games.
