So basically I understand that dating a black woman is different than a white woman. She mentioned she feels comfortable when someone is open to learn and takes initiative to learn the societal and cultural things that affect her as a black woman. I don’t know what this means. And the take initiative part confuses me. And I’m not sure how to go about it I’m very open minded to learn but should I probe with questions or more so reading about it myself?
I’d like this relationship to go somewhere (so far had 4 dates) but her telling me that felt deep and I want to make sure I take right steps
So by “So basically I understand that dating a black woman is different than a white woman” I was thinking maybe along the lines of how biggoted people are and try to judge and be peices of shit aand that might happen more noticibly.
And to me it’ not that I don’t see race I just prefer seeing the persona nd individual and what makes them --well tehm over race. if that makes sense
Yeah, understood. I didn’t mean to sound accusatory. Just pointing out the strangeness of the expression