Nice notion, but won’t work.
Those people will happily list every women they know, however distant.
Many men don’t even have a concept for this kind of “trust”.
Who gives you the right to challenge if someone is truly “trusted” or not? You don’t know the person or the people they are citing, so you are just convicting men without any evidence at all.
Not OP, but men tell us themselves. They tell us when we’re in a relationship and they say that no one else ever understood them like we do. They tell us when we see them talk about their loneliness across the internet. To deny it is to deny the pain that so many men admit for themselves, albeit only when in private or anonymous spaces.
A lot of men don’t have this deep trust in their lives, and I say this not out of malice but out of sympathy and concern. You deserve to know the kind of trust referenced here.
My girlfriend trusts me pretty much with her life, I think.
Her mom, trusts me not to rob their house since I have a key (she lives with her parents)
All the women I have a work related relationship with trust me at least to the extent of being in the same room together, I’m sure.
So yeah, not hard to think of people who have an amount of trust to say the very least, but yeah, I too wonder how much trust the question is really asking about.
It’s just like saying “I could care less” - pretty sure a lot of women I know COULD trust me less, than they currently do. Which means there is at least a minimal amount of trust there.
Nice notion, but won’t work.
Those people will happily list every women they know, however distant.
Many men don’t even have a concept for this kind of “trust”.
Who gives you the right to challenge if someone is truly “trusted” or not? You don’t know the person or the people they are citing, so you are just convicting men without any evidence at all.
Not OP, but men tell us themselves. They tell us when we’re in a relationship and they say that no one else ever understood them like we do. They tell us when we see them talk about their loneliness across the internet. To deny it is to deny the pain that so many men admit for themselves, albeit only when in private or anonymous spaces.
A lot of men don’t have this deep trust in their lives, and I say this not out of malice but out of sympathy and concern. You deserve to know the kind of trust referenced here.
Just what kind of trust you need? Many trust me, they also think I’m a moron and look down on me.
My girlfriend trusts me pretty much with her life, I think. Her mom, trusts me not to rob their house since I have a key (she lives with her parents) All the women I have a work related relationship with trust me at least to the extent of being in the same room together, I’m sure.
So yeah, not hard to think of people who have an amount of trust to say the very least, but yeah, I too wonder how much trust the question is really asking about.
It’s just like saying “I could care less” - pretty sure a lot of women I know COULD trust me less, than they currently do. Which means there is at least a minimal amount of trust there.