Yep, it’s the usual question
We’re very close, and we’re also getting to that age where everyone’s trying to settle in
I think she would be extremely sad if she stayed with me and if we didn’t have kids
But she also says that our relationship is the best she’s ever had and she only wants me
I hate work culture and I don’t want to work until I’m 80 because I have kids, it’s the biggest issue for me. I want to live as frugally as possible. In addition to that I have hobbies and I want my time spent on my hobbies and interests
I don’t know what I’m looking for by posting this, feel free to reply with anything relevant
Not having kids is a totally valid (and some would say the responsible) choice.
Having kids you don’t really want is the worst kind of child abuse.
Plenty of people keep accidental pregnancies and are great parents with well adjusted kids.
I’m sure that’s not what you’re referring to though but I’m still putting it out there.
Being an accident is not remotely the same as being unwanted, though they are overlapping sets.
I’d say it falls in the same ballpark but I think we can agree to disagree here.