The problem is when they react poorly to our contribution, we internalize the error as our own flaw rather than recognizing we picked shitty people to socialize with.

  • jahtnamas [sie/hir]@slrpnk.net
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    25 days ago

    i got actually fucking screamed at for saying “hail gay satan” while everyone else was saying “hail neil breen” wtf else do you expect me to do? i have never seen a neil breen movie and i’m your queer acquaintance with religious trauma who nobody apparently told that that the fact they were a legit satanist made them uncomfortable.

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      25 days ago

      “hail gay satan”

      religious trauma

      …

      is that like a horse and cart thing, or a chicken and egg thing?

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        24 days ago

        the church invalidated what it had taught me in its actions against others in the aftermath of 9/11. cue 11yo good cisgender christian girl’s 25-year (and still ongoing) transformation into a gay, trans witchthing that found spiritual comfort with other queer lefty demonolators.

        which idiom does this answer fall under?

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      25 days ago

      Why were people hailing neil breen? Was this like a worship service? Because I’d call that a cult and GTFO.

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      no one can be held responsible for irl satanists. it has to be in the top 3 minorest of minorities.

      and that’s coming from a member of an ethnic group classified as “critically endangered”

      edit: last part was a joke, in case it’s not clear. whole reply is a joke, really. sorry what was the topic again? jk