I have this trick in meetings when they suddenly go: AddLemmus, what are your thoughts on that?
I just revert my last mental steps before they jumped the shark, and say: “Actually, I was still thinking about [topic 10 minutes ago], which requires more attention. Especially …”
And it works! They think I’m thorough and thoughtful, the one who catches the important details that would have been overlooked otherwise.
For me, it actually started working a couple of years ago. E. g. cleaning the apartment feels overwhelming, but when I ask myself “What CAN you do?” - “I can put ONE piece of garbage into the bin.” it works.
But I understand that different things work for different people. For my child, this method does not work as well, for others not at all.