“But it’s not my favorite way! I can’t go that way!”
I’ll take exits to who knows where to avoid traffic even if sitting in it is technically faster. Every time the highway gets shut down for a snow-related accident, my adventure gene lights up and we go exploring the back country. It’s never fun, but it beats sitting in traffic, and it’s never as bad as the time I got stuck on the highway in a blizzard and was stuck at 15mph for a normally 2-hour-70-mph drive that took me some 5-7 hrs to complete… the next morning I took a perfect imprint of my license plate off the ice covering my car. Kept that in my freezer in a box for a couple years until sublimation made it unreadable.






Oh man I’d never play games where voice was a requirement, other than couch co-op.
My early online gaming was with wow and guild or pug vent servers and that was mostly ok because if you knew what you were doing as a support character you didn’t need to participate in the chats (and my main was a holy priest). My guild was accommodating, and had several deaf members, so voice wasn’t a big push for us.
I was a raid leader and the main healer of my guild and I did not ever talk on voice chat because I couldn’t be bothered to set up my mic and nobody cared. We were casual, but I mean yeah, it’s a game for fun.
I have absolutely no interest in exposing myself to public servers, or even anything less curated than guild servers or temporary as pug chats. I don’t play online games if voice chat is needed.
It might be a you problem if you don’t feel connected with someone making the time to play with you because it’s not your preferred way.