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Cake day: June 18th, 2026

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  • No biggie! Glad it brought something to the table for you. Also, thanks for the info, will definitely look into it.

    P.S. Man I’ve got no doubt whatsoever that you’ll sort it out. If you ever need an opinion about it or simply want someone to be listened by, don’t hesitate to speak up. Never. Also, oftenly we get caught in all type of bs and forget how truly beautiful life is, meditation helps a lot in this sense too. Take care!













  • Something in-between I’d say. When I’m doing it, it’s an automatism. When I don’t, I feel kinda uncomfortable and I have to do it. Also, sometimes I rub one out just to feel kinda normal again (for another, let’s say, hour) and not have to crave it. I’m doing it not out of pleasure, but out of I don’t even know what at this point.

    Tho I’m pretty sure that we’re not the only ones fiddling around, so it’s chill… I think haha.


  • PvpiChulo@lemmy.todayOPtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world•How do I stop masturbating?
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    9 days ago

    I agree 100% with you. But I must admit, I abuse it and it’s an actual problem. It has affected me mentally and physically (won’t get into much detail here, but I get pretty bad withdrawals after masturbating at times, more often than not I physically feel uncomfortable if I’m not touching myself, even if the activity that I’m doing is not sexually arousing in any way, I am tired everyday all the day etc). I don’t have a problem with the act itself, but with the addiction. It’s a problem that I’m willing to solve tho.





  • Fair point. The thing is that it has gotten pretty bad with time, and has affected me mentally just as much (low self-esteem, anxiety when going outside and a few others). All I want to do for now is get rid of the addiction itself, not the act. I can obviously allow myself to do it from time to time, as long as it’s healthy.