radio.garden for listening to whichever ad-free stations we can find (usually classical/jazz stations) while at work.

rainwave.cc for when we’re at home and just want background music, fitting as it’s a site for video game music and covers.

when we have moods where we want to listen to specific songs and albums, youtube.

Cinnamon Bun

I don’t know how much of it has to do with being on the spectrum and how much of it has to do with people just being extremely judgy but a lot of things are tucked away until someone gets to know us. It also doesn’t at all help that in our experience, people have used information against us to get us in trouble.

As a result, we don’t discuss hobbies, even “normal” ones. Can’t talk about drawing because we’re furries and people are still weird about that. Can’t talk about hiking or nature stuff because it would lead to discussions of naturism/nudism which again, people are still weird about. Aside from hobbies, discussing being plural and trans is completely off the table unless we’re 1000% sure the other party isn’t going to be an asshole about it. - Phoebe (it/its)

Mega Man, no matter how much time I put into trying to grasp the controls and mechanics, it just never clicks.

Gender is a spectrum and that also includes the intensity of those feelings. You don’t need to place any specific labels on yourself but that is certainly relatable to someone like me who is genderfluid, as well as those of us in the system who are demigender. - Cass (xe/xem)

Toss up between Jenny (867-5309) for being absolutely disgusting on a conceptual level for glorifying stalker behavior or Owner of a Lonely Heart for going fucking nowhere and then having the audacity to drop a blaring synth note like it’s a crescendo before going back to nothing.

God the “Watergate does not bother me… does your conscience bother you?” line alone puts this up there for me, and that’s far from the only thing to dislike.

I don’t know if this is the kind of answer you’re looking for but for us, it ends up being spaces online like chats, streams, and VRChat. It’s kind of the only times and place where we actually get to exist as we’re meant to. - Tabi (ey/it)