Trans woman who pays a bit more attention to mannerisms than most people, both in men and women.
- Yes, it’s a real thing
- It’s at least 90% men, and I’m being generous
- It’s not most men that do it (especially in the sillier ways)
- Size matters not
Picture a teenager in black sweatpants and a hoodie, on his own in a bus. That’s the most common I think. It’s generally men who try to project an image of strong masculinity or coolness. They don’t really do it with other people because it’s silly. It might be an unconscious thing, idk. It still looks stupid. It’s mostly men because it’s a masculinity thing.
It’s great if you don’t do it, and I wouldn’t be surprised at all if you didn’t. But there very much is a type of guy who does it. And there is no common type of woman for that specific behavior.
The character Berdly is an archetypal “annoying nerdy kid” character. He’s a gamer, he’s weird with girls, he thinks of himself as an intellectual.
The first person in the screenshot is presumably making a joke, but the message could have plausibly been made by Berdly (minus referencing sex).
The second person says that the first person’s profile picture (of Berdly) is affecting their behaviour in the same way that the mask from The Mask (1994) takes over the body of its wearer, suggesting that the first person’s behaviour is out of character for them.
This is funny because of the clashing tones between the two messages (the floweriness vs straightforwardness) and the (absurd) idea that a profile picture can possess you.