but your emphasis turns the position from “we do also need to be open to criticism” to “those who agree with OP apply this advice to all critics”
I don’t think you understood what I said. It’s not a dichotomy at all
You twisted it into “all criticism is haters, who you should never listen to”.
That’s the implication of the OP. Someone says this isn’t helpful -> they hate you and what you believe in. If you disagree with that, congrats we agree.
Which then implies the other position is to be open to all criticism, thus the false dichotomy.
You inferred that, I didn’t imply that; my statement had no either-or. It’s really the same message. I never said anything about accepting all criticism or rejecting all criticism, the dilemma is in your head. The meaning behind what I said is “don’t assume the worst of criticism,” you are twisting that into whatever you came up with.












Yes, and the person I replied to is about how sometimes we need to take advice to communicate better. I simply agreed by saying assuming the worst of all criticism (using the same phrasing as the OP, because it’s applicable to more than just concern trolls) is not conductive to functional communication.
No, you’ve inferred that. I don’t think the OP meant that, but what they said could very easily be used that way, which is why I borrowed the phrasing. Because there are absolutely people that think that way.
But that is the actual wording of the post. Someone gives criticism -> they hate you and your cause. OP may only specifically be thinking about concern trolls, but that is a rationale one can use to dismiss all criticism, which is what I asserted to be counterproductive.
I think you’re the one forcing an interpretation here, and that’s still not a dichotomy. Even if I accused OP of saying all criticism is from haters, I’m not advocating listening to all criticism, just to not make assumptions.
Of course it does, and it fits entirely within what I’ve said. If you want to continue this analogy, my reply says “don’t assume everyone criticizing Hasan is Fox News”
I never said, or implied, that OP is applying “hates you and your cause” to all criticism, just that some people do, and it should be avoided.
If you think my statement is unspecific and implies that of OP, fair enough, but then you should also accept that the OP is unspecific enough be misapplied to all criticism.