

01·
1 year agoFix yourself.
Phrases like this or “stop being a weirdo” are aggressive, insulting, and only work for you to feel superior to the OP.
Even something like “you have a lot of unsolved issues, you should see a therapist before attempting to befriend your ex”, though equally blunt, is less deliberately insulting.
I love that the series Seven Days took this into consideration in its device.
The series is flawed in other ways, but that was neat.