As a guy, I never really felt comfortable saying those things to anyone irl.

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    14 days ago

    Depends on the person. I am definitely more expressive than your average man, but it’s all strategic. I use my openness as a distraction from the feelings I keep hidden. It’s sleight of hand but emotions. I’ve been hurt way, way too many times by being open about the wrong things.