• dgkf@lemmy.ml
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    1 month ago

    doing the right thing isn’t gendered. I assume you mean “or will you take responsibility and act like an adult”, but the way you phrased it leaves too much room to be interpreted as “don’t be like a woman who can’t take responsibility for their actions”

    even if you didn’t mean it that way, this is how sexism perpetuates.

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      1 month ago

      I would posit that the phrase " be a man" insinuates that doing the right thing is an adult trait, unlike being a little boy who runs away from his problems. Not inherently sexist.

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      1 month ago

      It’s from a song called Which Side Are You On. The woman who wrote it just had her husband snatched by the local sheriff for union organizing.