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  • If you think the “no kings” protests were ignored you weren’t paying attention to how loudly the right wing bitched about them.

    Heck, it can be argued that their scale was why senate Dems let the government shut down over the ACA subsidies – and while I think how that shutdown ended was cowardly, it was also the most politically effective shutdown in US history. (There are multiple bills to extend those subsidies, and everyone knows which side is against them!)


  • Fight is steps 6 and 7.

    A violent insurrection cannot be planned in advance, especially not on the internet, and will either be doomed to failure or will consist of extant political divisions and advocacy organizations militarizing or joining en masse.

    (The only successful revolutions that weren’t extant orgs going to war were either not violent or so massive that “the whole nation” was the org going to war.)

    And OP asked for advice about their trans kid. Child soldiers are a fucking war crime.




  • Step 1: don’t panic. The same garbage rule that is going to cost anyone on a ACA plan thousands of dollars next year will also hopefully keep MTG’s transphobic bullshit from becoming law.

    Step 2: prepare to endure. Talk to your trans-kid’s pediatrician or specialist NOW about roll-your-own HRT and puberty blockers. (You don’t want the only person advising you on them to be an unlicensed internet pharmacist). Get a lawyer if you can or get in contact with your local trans advocacy group.

    Step 3: prepare to move. Leaving a garbage red state for a brave blue state is good advice for anyone who isn’t a white nazi. New York and New England or the west coast. Not VA, PA or MI (Both lovely, too purple).

    Step 4: prepare to flee. Do NOT keep your family here if elections are cancelled, civil war breaks out, or the post-truno POTUS is an even worse Christian DominionIst.

    Step 5: talk to your kid about what THEY want. Children are just temporarily disabled adults, and they may surprise you.

    Step 6: vote. Pick Republican or Democrat, and vote in EVERY election, general or primary, whether you like the candidates or need to just spoil your ballot.

    Step 7: advocate. As much as you can, tell your neighbors and reps and random strangers that your kid shouldn’t live in fear or be tortured because some small-hearted bigot doesn’t know the difference between sex and gender.









  • DomeGuy@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldWho?
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    As the guy who buys his own wine and isn’t that picky, I’d much rather open a $5 bottle than one ten times that price. Especially if it’s a sweet red; then I can get an order of magnitude more drink than the snob who likes sour grapes.

    (And, honestly, $50 is way too much for a common bottle of wine. Even $30 is nearly in the realm of conspicuous consumption.)


  • I think we have a right to be judged fairly and not because of our gender or sex. But that’s a semantic point and I don’t want to quibble.

    I do want to push back on excusing from women their responsibility for the society we live in, however. (Or just underline an implied point we may both share.)

    Nearly every man I know values the opinions of women at least as much as those of other men. When a boy sees his mom belittle his father for being insufficiently manly, he hears a lesson that sexism is bad. When a man tells a boy that the way to get a girlfriend is to be a sexist jerk the boy listens, not because he cares about the con artist, but because he’s desperate for a girl who cares about him.

    Men have a lot of the big levers of power, and do bear a proportionate share of our own blame, but we shouldn’t excuse women who use the power they have in ways that make our society worse.

    We’re all in this together, and all need to do what we can to make the world we pass to our children better than the one our parents passed on to us.