40ish white dude (he/him) from the Netherlands

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Cake day: January 29th, 2024
  • madjo@feddit.nltoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•*Permanently Deleted*
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    3 days ago

    I would give him time, if I were you. After a month of dating, that’s still pretty early in a relationship. Sleeping on someone else’s house can be scary, so early on.

    After all, you wouldn’t want to be forced into something you’re not ready for either.

    I totally get your side too, it may seem weird but it’s his boundary to set. He has said no, and no still means no.

    The best thing you can do is to keep the invitation open and talk about it with him. Find out what he thinks or fears is going to happen.

    Maybe he had a bedtime ritual that he’s not yet willing to share yet.