Good lord. I’m not having a debate about the adequacy of an analogy. Well done.

Like any analogy, it doesn’t perfectly map to the complex issue being analogised (?), but it’s not as absurd as you’re making out.

The architecture for plugin support is not free. Even if no plugins are active the platform is built to support all the extra nonsense.

lighttpd is the leanest webdav implementation i can think of. Obviously it doesn’t have sync and sharing and permissions, but it’s an interesting point of reference demonstrating how over engineered nextcloud really is.

If you’re a fan, and want all of this stuff bundled together then fine, have at it. As I said up top, I am using it but I dislike it immensely.

Those are add-ons.

Besides which, o365 is not a single self hosted php behemoth.

I’m loathe to extoll the virtues of 365. I don’t use it and never will.

Oh please. AWD is not “better” 4WD. 2 different things for completely different purposes.

Sure that’s why I drive my 4wd anywhere i want to go - i don’t want or need 4wd but I can just not use that functionality.

Sorry what office suite is basic NC functionality that has been there for a long time?

Well if I uninstaller them what would i complain about?

Nextcloud isn’t a 365 competitor?

It’s filesync with contacts and calendar.

Even once you build in documents and spreadsheets, 365 at least has separate applications for that - its not a single overblown behemoth.

KeepassXC is the only thing that makes sense to me.

I don’t want all my passwords stored with some huge target like lastpass or bitwarden.

Encrypted local (and synced) DB is the only way.

Kinda sounds awful honestly.

I do use nextcloud for my small team. It’s the best of the selfhosted file sync platforms.

That said, it’s obscenely over engineered.

Who ever wanted a file sync platform that also does calendaring and contacts?

Whether to forgive a cheating partner is a divisive issue. Some people say it’s something they could never move past, others just don’t think it’s a big deal.

I don’t think it’s necessarily men or women - its both. Probably more men commented on your boyfriend’s post because he’s a man.

I can imagine it would be a pretty awful feeling to be in your position - you’ve acknowledged that you messed up, you’ve worked through it with your partner, and now all these people casting judgement on you without understanding the circumstances.

There’s a lot of different aspects to this. The web is full of “drama llamas”. My guilty pleasure is reading /r/aitah posts, even though I know they’re fake it’s still really engaging and reading everyone’s comments is interesting. People say things online that they would just never say to your face. So comments are way more hurtful.

My advice has two parts:

ask your boyfriend to delete the post because the people commenting don’t really know you or the situation and it’s very hurtful

Secondly think through what you would tell a good friend who had been through something like this, it’s probably something like "yeah you did mess up, but everyone does sooner or later, you’ve learned a lot and you’ve worked through it, " et cetera.

Reminds me of this time last year when Trump was on trial for a half dozen things.

Everyone was all like “ooh it would be so undemocratic to try someone while they’re campaigning”.

Meanwhile republicans can just uncitizen anyone they don’t like.

You can’t win if no one is playing by the rules.

I’m not angry.

There’s only a few users i block.

I’m not a centrist.

I feel like I’ve blocked you a million times.

I don’t think rich people will be slightly less rich.

Free child care is a no-brainer. More people working, more productivity, more taxes, et cetera.

Who are their owners?

They better change something if they ever want to win an election again.

Forgive me such a silly question, but is it possible to… you know… decome a member of the dems and have your say?

That’s a pretty thin connection. If that’s the requirement, more or less everything political.

There is no law banning dog walking, therefore any discussion about dogs is political!

We won the lottery on this. Had twins, 1 boy 1 girl at birth. They’re too young to know if they’re gonna be friends, enemies, (probably both?)

Sure so maybe /c/regulatorybodies then.

What does this have to do with politics?

Musk is a train wreck that was briefly engaged in destroying the public service in the US. That doesn’t mean that everything tangentially associated any company associated with him is politics.