• ora@midwest.social
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        15 days ago

        All I know is I used to be asexual and a boy, now I’m a little sexual and a girl. Life’s crazy.

      • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        14 days ago

        Yup. After early menopause I went through this in order …

        Estrogen only - Maybe I’m just not going to want sex ever again.

        Intermittent Progesterone - I’m enjoying some fun sometimes with my wife, like maybe once a week.

        Proper full Progesterone - Wife is thanking my girlfriend for taking the pressure off.

        • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          13 days ago

          Huh, that explains why I’ve no libido at all. I’m on E only (+ T blockers) and it feels nice, but also damn.

          … I wonder how girl horny will feel.

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            13 days ago

            Soooo … I have fallen in love with three women in my life, the first one of which is a trans woman who has medically transitioned.

            She told me it’s better, because y’all can do the whole multiple orgasms thing like us cis women, so sex can be an ongoing activity only limited by your physical endurance.

            I wish you the best of luck with your horniness o7

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              12 days ago

              Before HRT, it’d feel like when you are under a shower and the warm water spills away all your thoughts - or when you get massaged. That trance is exactly what it used to feel like, but x5 more intense, and felt both in head and down there.

              Now, it’s less intense, about 1.5x more than the shower trance, but there’s a general feel of niceness instead of a ‘junk food’ feel afterward. I haven’t experienced the multiple orgasm thingy yet, but I did notice that the body no longer requires a sort of ‘strong cooldown’ after orgasming, so yay!

              Thank you o7 I also aim for surgery, difficult deciding what type though bc I aim for more vascularisation of the vagina (so I could possibly enable a pregnancy if a uterus transplant ever becomes possible).

  • Dippy@beehaw.org
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    14 days ago

    Sometimes asexuality comes from trauma and subsides when you feel safe. Source: experience